Excuse me please?!?

Inconsiderate - adj - careless of the rights or feelings of others

OK...I am FURIOUS! I can not stand inconsderate people. I hate that I feel like I mean nothing or that my feelings are not workthy enough of thought. My B-day is tomorrow and it is my 30th. Ok, not a big deal. another bday, but I was linda looking forward to it. It was mine and the day was mine. BUT NO! I now have a 15 yo's bday piggybacked on mine. I wasn't even asked! By no means am I a greedy person and I do not mind sharing. But it is my 30th bday. I was looking forward to a day for me. I wanted to feel special. Now I just feel sh!t on. It might sound a bit childish, but I hardly ever do anything for me. My energy goes to the girls and Brian. I just wanted a day for me. Is that too hard to ask?